On dawnfarm.org, I found this wonderful quote.  It echos my philosophy of what I strive for in all my relationships.  In healing work especially, we let go of judgement, and choose to see each person through the perfection that exists within them.  We trust that they are on their path and it is just as it is meant to be.  We release preconceptions of outcome and simply see this person in the moment; respecting their belief systems, their life experiences, and their perceptions.  We strive to meet each person where they are, relieving them of expectations without enabling them.  In the process, we help them see the perfection that already exists within them.  We do not choose their path, rather, we shine a light to help illuminate it, so they may move forward in love and light.